Across
1 Lorca's stick
5 Bandleader Shaw
10 Like a stereotypical wrist
14 Wife of Buck's Wang
15 Quick raid
16 Canal of New York ferries
17 With 34-Across, "a sort-of survival guide" by Leighton-Dore
20 Reeves of "My Own Private Idaho"
21 Bear with a small package
22 Where to find a date in a hot place
23 "Beatle Bailey" dog
25 Revolting
27 Delinquent
30 Flockhart of "The Birdcage"
34 See 17-Across
35 Author Leighton-Dore
36 Islands instrument
37 Brings indignity to
41 Gift of Ellen DeGeneres
42 Abound (with)
44 Screwed up
45 Edna, for one
46 Like an active partner
48 Lubricant
49 Language of Leif
50 Poet ___ Wu
52 Cold feet
54 Leighton-Dore's kiddie lit book about coming out
59 Strip a fruit
60 Rub it in
61 Sound of being banged?
63 Tutti-frutti ingredient
64 "Wonder Woman" star Carter
65 Put in a position
66 Cleans the floor
67 Day one
68 Go up and down
Down
1 11th U.S. president
2 Soothing agent for skin
3 Composition of some beds
4 Monotonous
5 It's south of Eur.
6 A gangster shoots it off
7 Long pants, for short
8 Like Shakespeare's feet
9 Optimist's place for a cock?
10 Toast of the cut
11 Bisexual writer Murdoch
12 Skimpy skirt
13 Sheehan's tees, e.g.
18 Went one one better
19 Stein's Alice
24 Eliza Doolittle, for one
26 Checked out the joint
27 "Breakfast on ___ "
28 Clay of "American Idol" fame
29 Shooting type
31 Type of daddy
32 Lions and Tigers and Bears
33 "A Delicate Balance" author
38 Area of the Audre Lorde Project
39 Paul Newman role in "Exodus"
40 Successful on one's own
43 Heather's parents, in kiddie lit
45 Oz visitor
47 Letter before omega
49 Beauty sleep
51 "West Side Story" Jet, e.g.
53 Annoy during a blow job?
54 "Otello" villain
55 Bend in a sink pipe
56 Charged particles
57 John Goodman's "Normal, ___ "
58 Intense rage
59 Cager Parsons
62 To God, in Latin
