Water in the Desert

Netflix has recently released "Disclosure: Trans Lives on Screen," a documentary created by Sam Feder, Amy Scholder and Laverne Cox. In it, a cast of transgender and nonbinary people examine the history of trans images [...]

By |2020-07-08T11:03:13-04:00July 8th, 2020|Opinions, Viewpoints|

Together We Can Make Historic Change

I was honored to recently join Affirmations, OutFront Kalamazoo, Equality Michigan and several other hardworking organizations and activists across the state for a virtual celebration of the historic ruling made by the Supreme Court to [...]

By |2020-06-26T12:37:43-04:00June 26th, 2020|Opinions, Viewpoints|

Civil Unrest Now and Then

As someone who participated in the Stonewall riots back in June 1969, many people have been asking me the similarities between that event and the events, civil unrest and demonstrations following the murder of George [...]

By |2020-06-15T14:06:18-04:00June 15th, 2020|Opinion, Opinions, Viewpoints|

A Message to BTL Readers and the Greater Michigan LGBTQ Community

The message could not be clearer: respond to the COVID-19 crisis by staying home whenever you can, wash your hands frequently and do whatever you can to not spread the virus. But there is also a much larger message to spread: take care of each other, reach out to people who are isolated and fearful, and let's open our hearts to each other – even if we can’t physically open our arms.

By |2020-03-19T23:28:38-04:00March 19th, 2020|Opinions, Viewpoints|

Reading About Love

The romance genre is a billion dollar plus industry and it’s finally starting to look like there’s a little something for everyone. That includes new adult — post high school/early college protagonists — more mature adults and second chance love stories, LGBTQIA relationships and protagonists who are people of color.

By |2020-01-22T16:21:37-05:00January 22nd, 2020|Opinions, Viewpoints|

Childhood Sexual Abuse: The Silent Shame

This past year in my practice, I began to see both male and female clients who presented with a past history of child sexual abuse. Unfortunately, the statistics prove that someone misusing alcohol or other drugs most likely has some form of child abuse in their past as well. Add that this person identifies with the LGBTQ community, and the numbers change dramatically.

By |2020-01-22T16:18:14-05:00January 22nd, 2020|Opinions, Viewpoints|

How the Trump ‘Medical Conscience’ Rule is Harming LGBTQ Liberty

In November a federal district judge in New York found that the Trump Administration lied. The Court also held that the Administration had overstepped its authority. Let me explain. In May 2019 the Administration issued its “Medical Conscience” rule. We’ve had medical conscience rules in the past that have protected health care employees who refuse to participate in performing abortions, sterilizations and assisted suicides, based on their sincerely held religious beliefs.

By |2020-01-07T16:22:36-05:00January 7th, 2020|Opinions, Viewpoints|

The Trans Body

Transphobia, like homophobia, isn't generally using the suffix "-phobia" to mean "fear," but to mean "aversion." It's the same notion as hydrophobic surfaces refer to their ability to repel water. That said, I feel there [...]

By |2019-12-11T14:29:06-05:00December 11th, 2019|Opinions, Viewpoints|

We Must Not Betray Their Sacrifices

The New York Stock Exchange. St. Patrick’s Cathedral. The National Institutes of Health. All three locations are icons in America not just because of their status in the broader culture but because of their seminal roles in bringing the urgency of our community in addressing the HIV crisis.

By |2019-11-27T15:41:20-05:00November 27th, 2019|Opinions, Viewpoints|

One Day After

On Nov. 20, transgender and non-binary people — and our allies — across the world come together to honor those murdered due to anti-trans violence. This year marks the 20th since a group of people [...]

By |2019-11-20T15:15:20-05:00November 20th, 2019|Opinions, Viewpoints|

Revealing, But Not What You Think

In 2008, a woman named Jenna Karvunidis sliced open a cake, revealing pink frosting within the layers. With her, the "gender reveal party" entered the popular lexicon. A decade or so later, the gender reveal has gone a long way from those humble beginnings becoming something far different from that cake.

By |2019-11-06T16:05:38-05:00November 6th, 2019|Opinions, Viewpoints|

On Being Trans at Halloween

Halloween is a time of magic and mystery. Traditionally, it once served as the end of the year, where autumn — and the abundance of the harvest — gave way to the dark and dim days of winter. In that liminal space between the seasons, one could get a moment to pierce the veil between other states, even between life and death itself.

By |2019-10-23T16:08:58-04:00October 23rd, 2019|Opinions, Viewpoints|

A Transgender Woman’s Take on Aimee Stephens’ Supreme Court Case

Last week the Supreme Court heard oral arguments in three cases that will determine if people can discriminate against LGBTQ people based on sexual orientation and gender identity. The future of our community's rights is at stake here in the U.S. The three cases that are before the Supreme court are Bostock v. Clayton County, GA, Altitude Express v. Zarda, and R.G. & G.R. Harris Funeral Home v. EEOC. The first two cases involve plaintiffs who were fired for being gay. The Harris Funeral Home case involves plaintiff Aimee Stephens, who was fired for being transgender.

By |2019-10-16T16:20:28-04:00October 16th, 2019|Opinions, Viewpoints|