Across
1 Cross-dresser in a Kinks song
5 Purse attachment
10 Like a milquetoast
14 "Hey, sailor!"
15 "___ Family"
16 ___ angle (not straight)
17 Ceremony performed by 28-Across
20 Used rubbers
21 "Queer as a three-dollar bill," e.g.
22 Tried to get elected
23 Triangular
27 Guitar master Paul
28 Gay religious icon
30 Kline of "De-Lovely"
33 Pump purchase
34 Try a Susan Feniger cookbook, e.g.
38 Jump for Doug Mattis
39 Whispered sweet nothings
41 Gilbert or Teasdale
42 Like a Merry Christmas in St. Louis
44 "Bewitched" director Nora
46 Klingons, e.g.
47 Dottermans of "Antonia's Line"
49 Justice Fortas
50 Writer Castillo
51 Cole Porter's "Let's ___"
52 Popeye and Bluto
54 Parishioners of 28-Across
59 On the calm side
60 "Are you calling me ___?"
61 Pride member
63 Letter opener
64 In need of a backrub
65 Top
66 Edna, for one
67 Tidied the lawn
68 Title document
Down
1 Weapon pointed at James Bond's crotch
2 "Gone With the Wind" heroine Scarlett
3 Willy the salesman
4 Encouraging words
5 Garbo's homeland
6 Cowpoke's nickname
7 Smash into
8 Notre Dame's Parseghian
9 Empire conquered by Alexander
10 Critically injure
11 International Male's business, e.g.
12 Name of many a gay bar
13 "You'll be back on your ___ in no time" ("As Good As It Gets")
18 Roomy vehicle
19 Wealthy, to Mauresmo
24 Linking toy
25 Poet ___ Wu
26 Cathedral of Hope area
28 Send a Dear John letter, but not to Elton
29 Talc target
30 Curly-leafed veggie
31 Come out
32 They put thermometers in your boxers
35 Reid of "Josie and the Pussycats"
36 Club for Sheehan
37 Children's caretaker
39 In between partners?
40 Banned from 12-Down?
43 Tolstoy and Sayer
45 Roz portrayer on "Frasier"
48 Did salon work
49 Military position
51 Farm gear pioneer
53 Mixed-up fruits
54 Court petition
55 Make a hole bigger
56 Metallic sound
57 "Good one!"
58 " ___ Like It Hot"
59 Get sum
62 Composer Rorem
