Across
1 He comes between Tom and Harry
5 Similar things
9 Flaming queen's crime?
14 Neighbor of Pakistan
15 "East of Eden" director Kazan
16 Put it in your mouth with relish
17 What a computer may spit out
18 Italian wine city
19 Taper off
20 Secretly gay rock and roll front man
23 "It's ___ for Me to Say" (Mathis)
24 Stamp of "Priscilla"
25 Battlefield cry
27 For skin
29 Slinky shape
32 Vehicles for some dykes
36 Stuff from your shaft
37 What guns shoot off
38 Dryer batch
39 Lech of Greek lore
41 Wharton degs.
42 Holds title to
43 Its head may be enjoyed orally
44 They come during finals week
45 Diggs of "Rent"
46 Treat badly
49 Write "The Hot'l Baltimore"
51 Some Barber compositions
56 Chop down
58 Secretly gay C&W singer turned pop star
60 "I Dream of Jeannie"'s Barbara, and others
62 Cut it
63 Regarding
64 "To recap…"
65 His brother laid him in his grave
66 "A Boy Named Sue" writer Silverstein
67 Dull surface
68 Neil Patrick's award for Hedwig
69 Cocksure Aesop character
Down
1 Performed, for Shakespeare
2 About to blow
3 Furnish food
4 Jack on the card table
5 Medium meeting
6 Heavy overcoat
7 Maupin setting for tales
8 Pass to a gay receiver?
9 Oscar, for one
10 Soldier under Stonewall Jackson
11 Secretly gay hip-hop mogul
12 Not taken in by
13 No, to Nureyev
21 They may be split
22 Conger catcher
26 Start of Caesar's boast
28 Norman Bates' place
30 "___ your disposal"
31 Bad bottom-line news
32 Rorschach stain
33 "The Music Man" setting
34 Secretly gay rapper/entrepreneur
35 Ford flub
39 Fill for you-mouthful
40 Urban pussy
44 Half scores
47 Grand slam title won frequently by Billie Jean King
48 Way to miss
50 "C'est Moi," to Lancelot
52 Up to one's ears
53 Campbell of "Martin"
54 Last word of a fairy tale
55 Got to second base, perhaps
56 Lammy winner Scott
57 Harvey's _Hairspray_ role
59 Western wolf
61 Testacle, in slang