Across
1 "Look ___, I'm Sandra Dee"
5 Stick it to
10 "South Park" composer Shaiman
14 Poke with your stick
15 Belle of Tara
16 Garfield's whipping boy
17 Ruination
18 Erotic artist Tom, et al.
19 Intensely bright star
20 Baseball team at Petco Park
23 Org. for pucking around?
24 Blockhead
25 Machine handle for cutting leaves of grass
26 Parting words
28 Actress Merrill
31 Sonny, to Chaz
32 Sally Ride's org.
33 Brian on skates
36 They recently sang for "Pride Night" at Petco Park
40 Some real dickless wonders
41 Chew on
43 Noise of the lambs
46 Untouchable leader
47 Bi suffix
48 Where husband and husband get on their knees
50 Drag queen's neckwear
52 Old Ford
53 A woman's voice was played over this as 36-Across sang it
58 Sphincter opening
59 Not straight up
60 Sale words
62 Easy partner
63 Single situation, to Billy Bean
64 Shakespeare's Hamlet, e.g.
65 Inquires
66 Like balls
67 Acronym for bears
Down
1 Alert, briefly
2 Spur-of-the-moment condom source?
3 Da Vinci signature piece
4 James Dean's "East of ___ "
5 Bulgarian capital
6 One of the Village People
7 Initiated phone sex
8 Laszlo of skincare products
9 Flier with a stinging butt
10 Paper in gay Paree, with "le"
11 Had the hots for
12 Kahlo's husband
13 Cut out
21 Octave ends for Bernstein
22 Fictional Italian town
23 No to Rimbaud
27 Diggs of "Private Practice"
28 Frisbees, e.g.
29 Seven-year problem in a Monroe film
30 Discouraging words
33 Pasolini's well
34 Heavy burden
35 Sex party
37 Saki's real name
38 Top hat wearer
39 Workplace where you bust your balls
42 Got hitched
43 Condom wearer, in sex ed class
44 Gay marriage advocate Morissette
45 Tear into
47 Tin roof pussy of Tennessee
49 Media exec Roger
50 Painter Francis
51 Erect
54 Former queen of Jordan
55 In the year, to Nero
56 Place for Proust
57 "Mary ___ little lamb"
61 Sarah Jessica Parker's city activity
